Emotional intelligence
Why is it necessary?
On the one hand, emotional intelligence is the understanding of the feelings and emotions of other people. It will be much easier to communicate if you understand people’s feelings and motives – you’re able to interact with them. You need to understand who they are, what they want and what are afraid of. On the other hand, emotional intelligence is the ability to manage your own emotions. If you understand your emotions and you can control them, you’ll be successful in making right decisions.
How to develop?
Firstly, people need to develop the skill of a good listener. Secondly, you need to learn how to analyze objectively your own behavior as well as behavior of your partner. Try to focus and observe how people behave, pay attention to their facial expressions, intonation. Analyze your own behavior in the same way: if you misbehaved or were silent when you shouldn’t have to, think about the reason of it. Don’t be toxic. Do not criticize, do not complain, especially publicly because such actions are destructive, they are not good for you and your surroundings – do not make the mood and the atmosphere in the team worse.
Actually these are 10 universal skills which suit any person in any profession nowadays. And it is good that you have discussed them in detail here.